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Post Anger management

Can someone tell us if our angers are valid or what would your response be??

1st Scenario: –

This didn’t happen to me though. it was Yeng’s situation.

Imagine you have an appointment with your friend at a bar at say about 1am, and you arrived first and seated yourself at a table and waited. Ordered your drinks and waited, until an hour later,

She didn’t arrive yet, and you decided to sms her on her whereabouts.

To realise that she hasn’t arrive yet but partying elsewhere and promise to be there at 3am.

At 4am, she walked in with a bunch of other friends, chose a table and seated themselves in another table, and not bothered to come over to you, yet…

After they were comfortably seated, she walked over to you and asked you to join them instead.

In the first place, you made appointment with your friend, shouldn’t your friend walk over to you the minute she arrived? What’s worst, she was damn late already, yet ..



2nd Scenario: –

This happened to me, . in april last year, when thirak and I went to dolly.

Medicated Oil Annie saw Thirakdarling and as usual, huggie him like she never seen him in 10 years like that. I was okay with that. Made him drink her glass of whatever, that reek of medicated oil, and kilkeneNI, and treat me like super invisible… and kept cheering with him.

After a while left to cheers with others in the packed crowd and came back to us, stepping on my feet to by-pass me to go to ThirakDarling and lift up her both hands and started hugging ThirakDarling .. Again.

Treat me invisible and put her hands around his waist and started talking and LOOKED at me and said the exact same words.:” you not jeolous hor,…” … “” because I never go your housewarming la……” then she HUG him again. It serioUSly caught us by surprise , and then Thirakdarling tiam tiam siam but cannot, because the place was impossibly crowded. You cannot run fast enough. hahaha

So it hit me

I scream at her…


We started to move away but somehow she found herself back with us and steeping on our feet and all, started shaking her body (dancing lah, but shaking to my eyesight) hahaha, singing, to ME especially to my ears… “” someone jeolous…. Some jeolous…Some jeolousSome jeolousSome jeolous.”

Hohohahah.. oh gosh.. sure enough, i blew my top at her. is she wanted me to be piss, i sure did and she sure got it!



Why I brought this up. Because Ahpui and I were chatting over some anger thingy and discussing about reactions and how much we can forget even if our anger were ceased…

Because she was our friend yet every EVERY occasion behaved like these.

People that knows me, I cannot strike another night with people like that, so ill-mannered with no respect for her friends. then again, if ahpui’s friend was her friend, she wouldn’t act the way she did, by coming late and ignoring her when she arrived.

I guess I wasn’t her friend else she wouldn’t do this to me.

This was the last time we went out and I snap.

So how would you react to situations like these?

Just a recollection of events.

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Finishing the balance drinks at King

2 weeks ago at King’s to finish off the balance of drink Boon and AK left for Thirak’s Birthday.
Only the 4 of us.
and they taught me kungfu that night.

the yishun temple dinner 156. on the next day

Over at Daniels’ house last week for some drinks

I’m Feeling: much drinking …

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Going forward to clubbing at the medicated bitch

When I wrote my post on the medicated bitch, my anger had subsided since it was so long. But suddenly, it was raise again, so
I might just give her a tight slap the next round and I CAN”T WAIT TO DO THAT! OR even more, whatever the circumstances there the next time.
Someone passed me the cane!
And if someone says’ she is your friend,”
Nah she isnt cause if she was, she would have respected me at least, but since she didn’t, so I didn’t as well.

I’m Feeling: …..

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The awful night at Shanghai Dolly …

Just before I start my joy and pride,

I might as well bloggie that night in dolly for weisong’s birthday first. Apart from his birthday joy,

Me aint as mad and anger as in the last few days already since its long past, so maybe this post aint as effective as I want it to be anymore, hahehha.

So when we had the BBQ that night at ST’s house with Molly mum and Tiger, we refrain from drinking much alcohol, because we knew we going to Dolly afterwards, so we didn’t,.

It was about 11 plus when we reached dolly, to our , MY HORRID, it was worst then the peak period in the train SMRT, we were trying to squeeze into and trying to get a tiny place even to stand.

PEOPLE were pushing and trying to get pass us, cramping us so badly, we had no idea how we managed to survive that crowd that night.

As it wasn’t bad enough, the tequilla girl Squeezed herself through the crowd toward us, pushing Darling AK away from me to the back, when I was beside florence and tried to sell her drinks.

I’m okay at normal times, I was even trying to stand on “one FEET” already, here she is taking another of my “FEET” floor and making the area we were at, more CRAMP forcing us to buy the tequilla.

I think florence bought some from her, and the promotor was trying to get me to drink and I was frustrated enough and the less floor area to stand and at her 3rd approach to me, I screamed at her.


So she finally left.

Then Annie their friendz saw Darling AK, gave him a big hug, just LIKE ALWAYS when she sees him. I was okay with that.

She was already quite high with her medicated oil always either on her glass or nose. She reak of medicated oil. MADE Darling AK drink her glass of Kilkenery and cheering.

After a while, she left to other people, then was back and HUG Darling AK again! Made him drink cheers with us.

Then she left to the others again.

Then she walked back, steping on other peoples’ feet, pushing whoever was in her way!

Then she saw Darling Ak, and HUG him again. When they stood talking, she had to placed her hands around Darling AK’s waist. Then she looked at me, realised I was there “ you not jeolous hor,…” … “” because I never go your housewarming la……” then she HUG him again.

the moment she said this, i decided instantly to be mad.

because it got me, it got me, because she said this sentence, it got me, because i knew she wanted to get me, so i let her get me, to make sure she knew she GOT me.

and to make sure she got me, i knew i had to throw out VERBALLY, if worst physically, at her.

and so i did.

What has housewarming got to do with the NUMEROUS time of hug? I scream at her… “YES I am jeolous…so?””

I told her I am very jeolous, “”” HOW MANY TIMES YOU HAVE TO HUG HUH? “””I SHOUTED AT HER…

After that we got disoriented and lost each other, because it was weisong’s birthday, I think darling ak and I were more focused that side there.

When we couldn’t bear no more, we join yeng near the stage that side there, where there were more square area floor for us to stand.

Everything was good, we were having drinking with ferr nikki yeng and gina when that ANNIE medicated lady came over, tramping on everyone’s feet along the way to us,.. and started shaking herself, singing “” someone jeolous…. Some jeolous….”

I wished I took the video of her shaking herself and singing away.

So the next time she came over tramping on everyone’s feet again, and cheers with us, I ignore her totally. she asked me to drink, i ignore her, making sure to let her know i IGNORE her and she knew i ignore her.

Till today. well if she didnt respect me in this sense, i guess, why should i? it wasnt the 1st time or 1st day, its almost all occasion when we met, she did this. so…

If I greet someone, I hug at the first meeting, as a greeting and miss you kinda thingy, NOT HUGGING EVERY 5 MINS.

STUPID. HOW Fish, talk also must put the hands around the waist, if it was a normal occasion, I think I might have create a large scene. Doesn’t matter if she was is am my friend.

So, after she wanted to leave, in a drunkard state and told everyone goodbye, but was still standing there shaking herself.

I gave her 5 mins, and when she was still shaking to the music, I couldn’t help myself, went to her and said :” just now you said you wanted to leave, why you still shaking?”

She heard me obviously and said oh ya oh ya, she said another round of goodbye’s to everyone and left.

As I was already mad, it got to me, the singer on stage made a rude remark about the ladies on the floor were spider spirits or evil spirits of something in mandarin. I called him over on stage after he made the remark and “#%$&*^(“ him.

As it wasn’t good enough, a friend of yeng’s made fun of yeng’s body shaking badly in the dance verbally and physically. I called him to repeat what he said to yeng verbally again if he dare.

Think Darling AK too heard, and said:” I’m her daddy leh, you dare say such thing” something like that. but of course, we sounded jokingly.

Hohohohoh,. What an awful night.

I’m Feeling: …..

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The night me and AK went to Dolly to finish our balance..

the day before Mummy’s birthday,

Darling AK and I went to King’s to meet alfred and to finish our 1/2 johnny walker.

then he thought about Shanghai Dolly to finish off the other 1/2 johnny walker, and we called YENG YENG.

but she was weak!

anyway we wanted to go a while.

The disco room was so packed and full. The moment, we entered, this drunkard was about to find some fault with the Bouncer.
ThiRak and I decided to leave Dolly when we came to the wine bar, EMPTY and sat down to drink the balance.

And William came to drink together with us. 3 of us was easy to finish the balance.
Someone’s idea to have AK47 shots,
the shots was amazingly large,
7 spirits in a shot., we ordered 3 balloon glasses.

15 mins later, i was in space. GONE.

The next moment, when i opened my eyes, it was morning and i was in my home room.

I cannot remember a thingy after the 15 mins of drinking AK47.
my eyes was painy, i was hungover.

never would i want to drink another AK47. Thirak AK said i didnt do any LOUD things, just high that’s about it. Thank goodness, no unglam moments.

photo taken when i was still awake

I’m Feeling: …suffered the whole next day..

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To Celebrate the Tiger year on the eve of eve oF LNY

We went drinking at Shanghai Dolly with Yeng and Tall ben,

with just lots of drinking on the Eve of the Eve of The Tiger Lunar New year.

I’m Feeling: .me standard of drinking dropped

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it was a Dramatic night at the chicken shop…

Our saturday night 2 dinners clashes.

151 & 156.

then we went to 151 dinner since we were told before way before hand of the dinner.

my parents went to 156 dinner though.

The MP didnt come for the dinner @ 151 this year, not that we were bothered, just

something to remember that he didn’t come.

then thi-Rak AK and I went back to 156 to meet my parents and the rest 156.

and we all ended up at the chicken shop with my daddy,.

Daddy & bolimo

me ahling


uncle heng…

fake flower hang


dramatic night that night… tsk tsk

fake again.

More photos September 2009

I’m Feeling: …..

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Brought Helen to the Duck shop

for a night of drinking @ XXXXX.

It was alright, the ducks left us pretty much alone and went on their own transcation in the club.
AHChai tabao from his shop crabbies for Yeng’s supper.

Then we adjourned to
@ the opposite of duck shop.

I’m Feeling: ok

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Don’t visit Doctor on the 1st & 15th day…

Dor thi Jojo Keun Ni Kin Lao Martell gup thi-rak AK, Yeng Jean jifa. Senuk senuk!!

It’s the Chinese 7th Month and MeuaWan was the first day. So when I made appointment to see Desmond last evening, I was expecting lesser crowd.


I thought I remembered Desmond told me once that on the every 1st and 15th of the Chinese calendar, people generally do not see Chinese Sinseh.

And it was TRUE! (ture)

Usually I very KS, I reached at 545pm, to queue with thi-Rak Ak to get our queue number.

The last visit was terrible.
Even thought I arrived at 545pm, my queue number was already at No.12.
And by the time we waited to see Desmond and get our medicine, it was 8pm.

Last evening was splendid!
I got queue No.2 and by 7pm, I was having my dinner at home. So it was good and its TRUE, no crowd, though, there was people, the usual crowd wasn’t that bad.

Moral is see Desmond on the 1st & 15th of the Chinese calendar month.
That is , if you are not superstitious


I’m Feeling: I was having some bad stomach …

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@ S’pore National Day

Our National Day photos of our partying drinking at a other side of the world shop house club which concidentally met the others.

See all that night photos here August 2009

then on the previous day, we went for Jasmine’s baby Ema’s 1 full month makan at her house.

it was a terrible hot afternoon with the psi at 58 i think. There i met all my ex-colleagues and ex-boss AH-WEE!.
it was awesome!

I’m Feeling: …..

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